Friday, May 04, 2007

Wats in a Name !!

Coming to think of it does it really matter what you are called as ? You would be the same person, doing the same things, having the same level of successes. For the rest of my blog I am conciously going to keep out the topic of numerology and other "josiyams" because I simply do not believe in them.

So how much does our name really matter to the kind of person we end up as ? At the onset all of us get pretty good names which make a lot of sense and sometimes describe a worthy virtue. I have heard phrases like " Live upto your name " and maybe these names are given to us in the hope that we attain the particular character. However given the same atmosphere and the influences would we not shape up the same way as we would have if we had been christened with some other name.

But all said , there is this particular attachment to one's name like none other. It gives you sense of identity and nothing else will suit you as a name. The only negative being that if you have a name starting from 'A' you have to suffer throughout school and yours will be in the first few names to be called out , whatever the occasion be.

Speaking about names, I remember this character from the Faraway Tree series. He had forgotten his name and people ended up calling him Mr. Watzisname. I am particularly mentioning this because as a reader I got accustomed to the name so much that even though he had found out his real name, I remember only the old one.

In the end it all comes down to getting used to the name you are given. It does not make a difference what you are called so long as you like your name and feel happy to be called that way !!

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

well i say names do affect what u do, and how u do it....

think this....u are named rasputin...what is the likely path u can take?

think this....u are named jeeves...what then is the likely path to take?

think about that.

The Arrow said...

Well.. an interesting point.. But look at it form this angle.. Whether Rasputin or Jeeves.. u wud have been in the same environment.. and more likely ended up as the same person...

Anonymous said...

i definitely agree with this dilemma u pose. it definitely is not a dichotomy, and what u are referring to is known as nature vs. nurture...and is still highly debated among scholars. but in an example point of view, jeeves parents will make him a butler, and rasputin will more than likely end up in politics.

The Arrow said...

Agreed... But then its not about Jeeves parents or Rasputins parents... ITs about wat their parents name them... and if rasputins parents had names him jeeves instead, would it have mattered ??

Anonymous said...

duh! of course it would have.

Arjun J said...

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Madhu said...

This gets me thinking - about my college profs names. I knew 2 English profs at our university in Goa (BTW for context, Goans give their kids first names that are the last names of famous(notorious?) ppl). Ok, back to the English profs - one was called Rabindranath Pinto and the other Shakespeare Colaco, and believe me these are their baptismal names; not something they changed to later in life. Now, could these people have become chemists or football players? Were these some kinds of unseen pressures by their parents to become English major/writers/poets?

Anonymous said...

heya..i absolutely agree with u.. names got nothing to do with the person u are.. nothing at all.. c'mon, just coz a persons been named after some god or goddess they definitely dont become one!!lol!! the personality and identity of the person is something developed and nurtured in the environment and social group they are born into..good job!